So how does it all happen....what is the mechanism of this whole chemical reaction which flows to & fro the two bodies also known as love?? Most of us would agree that it all just happened but we don’t remember how n when...To actually see it you have to divide this whole time into micro seconds n see each time frame as it lapses. After all years one yearns for those moments.

So let’s see where it all begins. And it is the first look. Well we have this general perception that first impression is the last impression like they have been taught by their parents, teachers but love begs to differ. People have their first pretty worst experiences but still it happens. In India people say that couplings are made in heaven by god. It leaves me to wonder why not hell. I don’t want to be partial to devil and moreover it leads nowhere better. But yes first impression is important whether its eye contact or small gestures, the way one speaks. Attraction is vital for the initial spark to break into fire and lit hearts of would be lovers. You just know it when you are attracted to someone. People don’t have to think alike for this. It just happens. But attraction is no certainty that love would also fall into picture.

 Asking for date is the next big thing. Knowing each other is very crucial for any establishment. Also it could be a dead end. There is no place for late comers. Remember there are millions of sperms after one egg but only one gets to fertilize (only metaphorically). Knowing the likes n dislikes of this other person could be very tricky business. I don’t understand if people are so right in their approach or they just fake it. Some people are too good in asking it out and for some it accounts for a lifetime.

My own experience says one should express it as soon as you see the butterflies coming out of your stomach...Gosh they must be the larvae we had eaten when we were kids. It all starts off really good but after all we are human beings full of errors. Listening is one thing we can’t do coz our body our minds doesn’t work this way. Also people shouldn’t fake too much in being what they aren’t coz this mask of “I am perfect for you” drains off in the rain of time. We all have skeletons inside. It is to make oneself better, adaptable not perfect. The real fun is not in perfection but complimenting each other. It’s like the magnetic poles. North will always attract the South. I hope people who have found it are the luckiest people. So for the rest who haven’t found their North or south yet, always remember the egg n sperm story.